Aro=aromantic, ace=asexual. It couldn't hurt more than falling in love with the wrong person, or someone who doesn't love you back. In the case of an aro-ace, they don't feel sexual or romantic attraction towards ANYONE (male and female or whatever else). They don't care, just leave them alone in their own bubble, don't harass or stalk them. I've had to have a restraining order on several men and women (all sexual orientations and cultural/religious backgrounds). Dating is boring and tedious for me personally as an aro-ace. And as I'm sex-repulsed, saxophone and touch-negative as well as agender, even the word sex grosses me out and disgusts me. I can't even look at my own vagina, pee and poo so yeah. I'm also cringing seeing couples out on the streets making out, kissing and touching and etc. French kissing or tongue-kissing is the worst in my case as far as kissing and touching go. But I also hate touching ANYONE's private parts (female or male or whatever else you might be). Just don't care for it. Also, lastly, seeing an erect penis or a wet vagina doesn't appeal to me at all personally anyways. ****s and kissing or touching a penis is the worst for me personally. My 2nd ex and oral rapist have ordered me to do it for them. Which under their power, I couldn't fight back, I'd just do it and be over with it. What's sexy or hot about seeing a sexual organ anyways for you personally as a non-aro-ace (female or male)? How about you? How do you feel about it in your eyes? And lastly on it, I don't think there's anything shameful or wrong in admitting that I'm actually an agender 34 years old virgin and single for life (being single rocks, I live with my straight female caretaker) born into a female body only. But in my soul and heart, I don't feel neither male or female, How about you? Do you feel male or female?
