I wanted to issue a call to arms and get any support I can. The issue is out of wedlock child support and government involvement. I believe that in wedlock, both a man and woman have responsibility to their children...even if the marriage ends. In an out of wedlock scenario like I am facing, I believe that if both parties want the child, then both should have responsibility. If, however, the woman wants the child and the man does not (my scenario), then the man should neither have any rights or responsibilities. The law does not see this. Basically, the man can be ENSLAVED, financially, by the woman, even if he wants nothing to do with the child. I believe that the government should NOT be involved in the affairs of out of wedlock child support.
Why do I believe this? Families who are financially struggling basically try to get the daughters to become pregnant at the hands of a well off bachelor with the intent to have a share of his wealth to live on. They do not spend this money on the child so much as on themselves. They use it to get things like nicer cars, stereos, TVs, and cell phones....hardly items that go to the well being of the child. It makes me sick to my stomach as the child still gets nothing. What if the man wants to be involved? The woman's family controls him and makes his life miserable throughout the entire experience.
If you feel this is fundamentally wrong, then you can help. I was sent this information by a friend and am soliciting any help. If you feel this is WRONG, then please post this EVERYWHERE!!!! I want all men who are faced with this nightmare to be able to stand up against the tyranny!!!
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I got some information for your friend. You and your friends can help him if you actually just write a letter on the internet to the following address. he subject all you have to write is we are against out of wedlock child support. Then just write a little message saying that you feel it breeds irresponsiblity and although both parties engaged in sex irresponsibly only one party decided to have the baby and the other party shouldn't be crucified for one mistake etc... To that effect. If he and his friends don't actually write something and voice an opinion, he has no chance at changing anything:
The e-mail address is:
hhspress@os.dhhs.gov
the snail mail address is:
Administration for Children and Families
7th Floor Aerospace Building
901 D. St. SW
Washington, DC 20447
You can also write to students@georgewbush.com and not vote for Gore who basically is a moron. Bush in Texas had a much more fair and sensible view on child support matters.
In any case, he has no chance unless you guys wage an internet or snail mail campaign stating that young Americans don't support government efforts and involvement with out of wedlock child support. Everything for kids of married parents should stay the same, make sure, it is specified as out of wedlock, you don't want to mess with the stuff for the wedlock kids. He can write one letter and get tons of people to sign it. It should point out that law can't legislate over a womans right to do what she wants with her body, and it should not legislate over the mistakes she makes with it either. Not to dismiss the man's involvement, but a man can't get pregnant and generally, the woman is the only one who gets to decide. Most kids from one night stands, I would say 100%, are UNWANTED. Scary statistics.
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Why do I believe this? Families who are financially struggling basically try to get the daughters to become pregnant at the hands of a well off bachelor with the intent to have a share of his wealth to live on. They do not spend this money on the child so much as on themselves. They use it to get things like nicer cars, stereos, TVs, and cell phones....hardly items that go to the well being of the child. It makes me sick to my stomach as the child still gets nothing. What if the man wants to be involved? The woman's family controls him and makes his life miserable throughout the entire experience.
If you feel this is fundamentally wrong, then you can help. I was sent this information by a friend and am soliciting any help. If you feel this is WRONG, then please post this EVERYWHERE!!!! I want all men who are faced with this nightmare to be able to stand up against the tyranny!!!
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I got some information for your friend. You and your friends can help him if you actually just write a letter on the internet to the following address. he subject all you have to write is we are against out of wedlock child support. Then just write a little message saying that you feel it breeds irresponsiblity and although both parties engaged in sex irresponsibly only one party decided to have the baby and the other party shouldn't be crucified for one mistake etc... To that effect. If he and his friends don't actually write something and voice an opinion, he has no chance at changing anything:
The e-mail address is:
hhspress@os.dhhs.gov
the snail mail address is:
Administration for Children and Families
7th Floor Aerospace Building
901 D. St. SW
Washington, DC 20447
You can also write to students@georgewbush.com and not vote for Gore who basically is a moron. Bush in Texas had a much more fair and sensible view on child support matters.
In any case, he has no chance unless you guys wage an internet or snail mail campaign stating that young Americans don't support government efforts and involvement with out of wedlock child support. Everything for kids of married parents should stay the same, make sure, it is specified as out of wedlock, you don't want to mess with the stuff for the wedlock kids. He can write one letter and get tons of people to sign it. It should point out that law can't legislate over a womans right to do what she wants with her body, and it should not legislate over the mistakes she makes with it either. Not to dismiss the man's involvement, but a man can't get pregnant and generally, the woman is the only one who gets to decide. Most kids from one night stands, I would say 100%, are UNWANTED. Scary statistics.
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