When I screw up and that happens constantly, I try to consider my actions. I see where I was wrong by placing myself in her shoes. I?ve been doing it long enough to see the big picture in a few minutes. I instantly see the errors of my ways once I ?look through her eyes?. Once I realize exactly what I have done and not what I thought I?ve done, I can go to the next step: apologizing.
Sometimes just saying I am sorry will solve most of the problem, yet it?s not always enough. I use poems, flowers, begging, and pictures with sweet puppies, just to name a few. When the boo-boos are really big, I turn to leaving small notes around the house for her to find. I write down one quality I love about her on a piece of paper and ?hide? it in plain sight. Then I go to the next and so on until I have 6-7 at least. They are all qualities I adore about her. This doesn?t always get me off the hook but it sweetens the deal considerably.
What?s your way of apologizing? Do you have a secret technique?
Sometimes just saying I am sorry will solve most of the problem, yet it?s not always enough. I use poems, flowers, begging, and pictures with sweet puppies, just to name a few. When the boo-boos are really big, I turn to leaving small notes around the house for her to find. I write down one quality I love about her on a piece of paper and ?hide? it in plain sight. Then I go to the next and so on until I have 6-7 at least. They are all qualities I adore about her. This doesn?t always get me off the hook but it sweetens the deal considerably.
What?s your way of apologizing? Do you have a secret technique?