me and my daddy had stopped talking for a year. he was upset with me because I didnt want to live in this one place and I decided to move in with my mom and by me doing that he abandoned me. the place I moved into the woman would verbally assault me and she was really rude and tried to control me and tell me what I can and cannot do.... and she stole my 1000.00 and wouldnt give it back.. well she didnt steal it but i couldnt claim it back because she was protected by something called the landlord tenent act. anyways I was pissed so I left there and moved out here with my mom...
anyways a year passed and I didnt hear from my dad at all. I sent him facebook messages and saw and he read them but there was never a reply back. I got really depressed and felt miserable which got me into eating and I gained alot of weight.... which now I am struggling to get off cause I cant seem to find a diet plan and excersize plan that will work for me... anyways enough of this..
so this past march I celebrated my 20th birthday... I got all kinds of calls and texts and emails wishing me a happy birthday..... but nothing from my dad... well that was until i messaged him reminding him it was my birthday.... which was when he answered back... anyways he called me that night and we talked and what not.... was a very awkward convo seeing as it was the first time we had spoken in a year...
anyways since then things have sort of gone downhill
he used to text me everyday... now I dont hear from him....
he used to answer my calls when I called him... now i leave a voicemail and nobody returns it.... i just called now to talk to him and my stepmother answered and said he was sleeping and that they were going to a family bbq tonight to see my opa and oma off to holland which I am jealous of now cause I havent gone on a family outting in a long time.
I am so depressed right now... it seems my dad is avoiding me...
i want answers. I wanna know why hes doing this
i know only he can answer this.... he got a new job recently and doesnt get home some nights till like 8 or 9
it seems all I have left is my mom, my boyfriend, my nanny, my dog, and my 3 cats and my bestfriends which are a select few.
i just dont know what to do... should I try and go see him like just show up there.... try and get him to come down here so i can sit him down and talk to him... im so depressed its not funny
what should I do?
anyways a year passed and I didnt hear from my dad at all. I sent him facebook messages and saw and he read them but there was never a reply back. I got really depressed and felt miserable which got me into eating and I gained alot of weight.... which now I am struggling to get off cause I cant seem to find a diet plan and excersize plan that will work for me... anyways enough of this..
so this past march I celebrated my 20th birthday... I got all kinds of calls and texts and emails wishing me a happy birthday..... but nothing from my dad... well that was until i messaged him reminding him it was my birthday.... which was when he answered back... anyways he called me that night and we talked and what not.... was a very awkward convo seeing as it was the first time we had spoken in a year...
anyways since then things have sort of gone downhill
he used to text me everyday... now I dont hear from him....
he used to answer my calls when I called him... now i leave a voicemail and nobody returns it.... i just called now to talk to him and my stepmother answered and said he was sleeping and that they were going to a family bbq tonight to see my opa and oma off to holland which I am jealous of now cause I havent gone on a family outting in a long time.
I am so depressed right now... it seems my dad is avoiding me...
i want answers. I wanna know why hes doing this
i know only he can answer this.... he got a new job recently and doesnt get home some nights till like 8 or 9
it seems all I have left is my mom, my boyfriend, my nanny, my dog, and my 3 cats and my bestfriends which are a select few.
i just dont know what to do... should I try and go see him like just show up there.... try and get him to come down here so i can sit him down and talk to him... im so depressed its not funny
what should I do?
