I've been orally raped myself at my psych ward by a co-patient on the 15th of December 2015 at exactly 4h15pm. No doesn't mean yes or maybe. Doesn't mean you can keep on kissing or having oral or other kinds of sex with the person, no means you should stop right there as a human being (man or woman). Doesn't mean you can obsess over the person, giving them birthday gifts coaxing them into a yes. No doesn't mean you can stalk or sexually harass a person until he/she says yes. No means no, period. Silence doesn't mean a yes, either, watch the person's facial expression and body language, which might be a no. How about you? How about do you feel about it?