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so what are you thinking right now?

reporter20 said:
Did the paperwork get filed yet so Pat can see his daughter?

Are they still far away, or are they close enough to drive? Will you go see the baby?

BTW you are a hot grandma. :foryou:
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No. Her mother refuses to do the paperwork, because God told her to keep Kimberly from Pat. :dunce: They live in Arkansas, 700 miles away. We can't afford to drive there, and Pat wouldn't be able to see Kim or her baby.
 
Im trying to be positive...I really am. Between being jealous that she can GET pregnant...her being too young...me being too young...the mess with Pat and having to shoulder my pain over it PLUS his when it comes to his daughter...the fact that she is 700 miles away...the list goes on. I just hurt.
 
Since I have to work tomorrow I went out and hit the deals at Jewel and Target and got a coupla cheap tops at kohl's...I LOVE paying 2 bucks for a top! I am bushed now but so glad I went. Felt like the old days for a little while...I so miss all the great deals of yore!
 
dragonfly said:
Hang in there, Jeni, it will get better. :huggy:

How did it go today, KG?
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really well, thanks for asking. We did our final walk-through, went to closing (it's a MIRACLE how closings happen in a timely fashion when you get your **** documentation in on time :dunce:), then went out to lunch at one of our favorite places to celebrate. Then DH started moving odd things while I painted the laundry room (it's just so much easier to do that before the washer, dryer and cabinets go in). I took lots of breaks and wore gloves.

Dh is busy tomorrow, so I have to be at the new house all day for utility hookups, garage door opener installer (that **** needs to start at 9 AM, the nerve!) and refrigerator delivery. I'll put a second coat of paint on the laundry room, then I plan to put my feet up and crochet my baby blanket.

Big stuff and most boxes get moved on Sunday. Monday DH has friends helping him unpack the portable storage units -- I finally get my winter coat, my grandma's dining room table, my lifetime supply of tampons :giggles: and a bunch of other stuff I haven't seen since April :bliss: We might bring the cats over Monday or Tuesday; we'll see when things calm down a bit. They know something's up. The clingon is more clingy than normal... the other ones are acting up too.
 
KG said:
I kindly request any potential kidnappers be well-versed in making grilled cheese sandwiches and pumpkin ****ins. Please.
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I can do the grilled cheese. Not sure on the pumpkin ****ins??? That might be from one of our famous bakers, but I could at least go pick them up :)
 
eecwz said:
I can do the grilled cheese. Not sure on the pumpkin ****ins??? That might be from one of our famous bakers, but I could at least go pick them up :)
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you don't strike me as the kidnapping sort of person. But if you make grilled cheese, hurry! I just found out the garage guy starts at 8 AM. I just woke up and I need to leave in about 5 minutes to be there at 8. :surrender:
 
Just curious if Gingerballs is the clingon. :giggles:


Hope all goes well today. Looking forward to new pics!
 
Can you guys give me some thoughts here. What do you think of friends who always want to get together for dinner and ****tails for an evening, but always end up at YOUR house, never their house. They usually stay a bit too late as well. Do a lot of people do this? Am I a sucker?
 
NannyMcCheapy said:
Can you guys give me some thoughts here. What do you think of friends who always want to get together for dinner and ****tails for an evening, but always end up at YOUR house, never their house. They usually stay a bit too late as well. Do a lot of people do this? Am I a sucker?
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There is an easy way to solve this......just don't have friends :)
 
If you're always providing the dinner & the ****tails, I'd stop having them over until they get the hint. But we have far more people over here for dinner than we ever go anywhere else, so who am I to say? :p
 
NannyMcCheapy said:
Can you guys give me some thoughts here. What do you think of friends who always want to get together for dinner and ****tails for an evening, but always end up at YOUR house, never their house. They usually stay a bit too late as well. Do a lot of people do this? Am I a sucker?
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you need to cut it off before it happens, tell Dh before you go out that you ARE
coming home alone. If/ when the subject comes up during dinner, you simply say " calling it an eary night, have lots to do in the morning". You have to break the cycle. Let the female know your plans ahead of time also, so she can stick her foot up her mans **** if he even suggests stopping at your house.

yes, you are a sucker, runs in the family, get use to it.
 
NannyMcCheapy said:
Can you guys give me some thoughts here. What do you think of friends who always want to get together for dinner and ****tails for an evening, but always end up at YOUR house, never their house. They usually stay a bit too late as well. Do a lot of people do this? Am I a sucker?
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Suggest ordering take out and splitting the cost. Maybe there's something wrong with their house (hoarders? cat peed all over and it smells?) :9:
 
I HATE peeps like that Nanny.....i am usually the first person to say: "you don't hafta go home but ya gotta get the hell out of here":lol: A few times peeps were put off by it but hey I ain't gettin' any younger either! Now peeps know they better clear out by a decent hour. ESPECIALLY since my house is SUPER small! :-)
 
KG, you need to GET your sleep! When those peeps leave take a nap! Glad your moving is going well and don't overdo it!

On another note my **** BILAW calls up yesterday and wants us to come to a get together TODAY for my nephew's bday. Of course DH immediately caves and says will go...I told him he and DD can go. I've got stuff to do and I have to work later today...plus it's that time of the month and it is particularly heavy..worse than usual I am so not feeling like putting on a happy face w/those psychos!
 
We don't even have to put out all the food or drinks all the time. They bring stuff and rarely come empty handed. I'm taking more about the ...always at our house thing. The one couple has a beautiful home with no kids and lots of $$. Ok, the other small house and not so clean, but still, I don't judge them. She does make comments if I say I have some work to do and she will say, yeah, sure your house is dirty. Is it bad to have a reasonable clean house? She should try it sometime. It has kind of worn thin with us. I just have the mess and late night that I feel like getting older and want to call it by 10:30 or so. We have another couple that likes to eat out and not cheap if you kwim and order bottles of wine. Umm, yeah, we don't drop that kind of money eating out anymore. They don't accept what is and keep asking. I'm 45 I want to say, what the hell part don't you get. Tired of other peoples bullshit. I feel like when people don't take no for an answer it's very disrespectful.

I need to go live on an island...:surrender:
 
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