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Bash WOMEN (Not meant to be sexist)

Great rant. But one thing you have to learn about women, most of them will never let you get the last word in. If you do, they WILL call you back. Heres a tip send her a letter and then go to the post office and tell them to return any letters form her adress. (Ok that was pretty evil) But hey some poeple get off on messing with you. The trick is don't give them the chance, do that dating thing for a LONG LONG while before you even think about sleeping with her (I personally belive about the time of marriage is a good time to wait) Don't open yourself up that wide without being prepared for the worst unless you KNOW that they won't hurt you. (Marriage is a good time)
 
totally, i mean i try to be nice, you know somebody they would want to have around, and what dose that get me?? if im luckey MABY another friend. IM TIRED OF BEING THE FRIEND!!! but youre right, i guess ya gotta be a prick to get anywhere.
 
just felt i had to pitch in 'cuz it's really starting to piss me off now too lol. i'm like pure nice guy, i'm not gonna treat a girl like crap just to get a rise out of her, i don't treat anyone like crap. i treat people the way *I* want to be treated, with respect. now this all isn't to say that i'm not funny and fun to be around and happy and joyful and all that fun stuff, but what's the effect of all that? you get to be "friends', and if you want more, the girl is all "well, i never thought of you that way" and then turns the conversation around to "this guy i'm seeing, i hate this guy, i don't even know why i'm seeing him" and you sit their dumbfounded. heh, i need start up a good bash about this one girl...soon lol.
 
Go for it, Rascal! That's what we're here for! Start your own thread!!
 
Ironically, I also suffer from the "nice guy problem"....except that I'm a girl. So, figure that one out.
 
Yeah, I know, Damm. Never got me anywhere, either. That is of course until I met MrD!:hug:
 
I've asked a few girls what this whole "nice guy syndrome" thing is and the responses I've gotten are so ridiculous they'll blow your mind. I'm also one of those really nice guys. I treat people how I would like to be treated, I hold doors open, I've tutored friends for free, etc. So, some justifications for women seeking out assholes: "If I go out with a nice guy I'm going to get too attached." "If I work on him enough, I know I can change him." Or, my personal favorite, "He treats me like I don't matter to him and it just makes me want to work on him until he wants me back." Irrationality in its purist form.
The BEST part about being a nice guy is having to listen to a girl you're interested in complain about the **** she's dating. Like he's got some hegemonous power over her that makes her incapable of ignoring him and seeing the great opportunity that's presented itself in friendship with someone who's tolerant enough to listen to these problems.
 
... as well as how some GUYS can be!!! Sometimes, the "right one" stands in front of us and we have no idea that they're there - NEVER overlook something that you feel may be "true love" - or even something that you feel is good, close and compatible attraction - it could be the match you were born to have. I'm not saying that every young girl or boy should marry and stay with their "first love" - in fact, I think that's NOT AT ALL A GOOD THING TO DO - a person needs to explore themselves way before they explore anyone else - how else are we as young adults supposed to know what's "right or wrong?
 
i feel your pain my brotha! lol. the challenge of turning a bad guy into a good guy seems like it's more attractive to a girl than actually just having a nice guy. i think maybe some of the fault lays on myself too, i sort of expect that the girls i like will just reciprocate so maybe they don't know that i like 'em...maybe it's time to become a tad more brash :) or not... lol
 
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