Birth Control???
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BC gave me terrible migraines. This was several years ago and I tried a couple different kinds. Since I already suffer from migraines, I was dealing with them 20 days out of the month when I was on BC so I vowed never again.
I am very, very regular so other than the short period I was on BC, we just use the rhythm method. We've had 2 kids in 10 years (and they were both planned) so I think we're doing pretty good with the method we've been using.
I am looking to go on BC not to try and avoid pregnancy per say but to get control of my life back. I have never been on BC. I have been married for 22 years and I have 2 boys. Ages 4 and 2. So obviously I am not a "fertile Mertile". Since the birth of the last my child my period has DRAMATICALLY changed. It is getting in the way on my life. Honestly I can't go on like this..............ms:
I am looking at something like Lybrel. I was hoping to get every bodies experiences both good and bad. I have to make my decision by August 15th.
I would love another child but due to DH's and my age we just don't think it is possible. We are very lucky we have been blessed with 2 healthy boys. Our family is complete.
I am sorry about your experience with BC. I have been reading side effects and think "Wow does this really happen to people?" And you are proof it does.
Sounds like you definitely need some help. Have you been able to investigate WHY things have changed so much for you? I often think Drs are too quick to throw BC at "female issues" than to figure out their source. I don't know enough about your specific issues to have an answer but there are often other more holistic options with herbs and teas and even acupuncture. Raspberry Red Leaf tea is enjoyable and helps with some issues.
My worry with your explanation is that hormonal BC may bring you a whole world of new issues that you don't need. I generally believe that new symptoms are there for a reason and finding/solving that is better than "messing" with your body further if you have a choice.
I really hope you can find a solution. I'm sorry you've been having such a hard time. If you do need BC, I really hope you won't have any if the horrible side effects.
We used condoms when we first got married but they gave me UTI so we stopped and practice NFP. Works really well but Im also very regular. I think that helps a lot.
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Sounds like you definitely need some help. Have you been able to investigate WHY things have changed so much for you? I often think Drs are too quick to throw BC at "female issues" than to figure out their source. I don't know enough about your specific issues to have an answer but there are often other more holistic options with herbs and teas and even acupuncture. Raspberry Red Leaf tea is enjoyable and helps with some issues.
My worry with your explanation is that hormonal BC may bring you a whole world of new issues that you don't need. I generally believe that new symptoms are there for a reason and finding/solving that is better than "messing" with your body further if you have a choice.
I really hope you can find a solution. I'm sorry you've been having such a hard time. If you do need BC, I really hope you won't have any if the horrible side effects.
I have been under the care of a Chiropractor friend for almost 4 months. I am taking a ton of supplements. And getting adjustments. It is not working for me. When I go back to the OBGYN and get BC she will be PISSED off at me.
2 weeks before my period I am a RAVING LUNATIC. 1 week before the insomnia kicks in. 3 days before spotting and EXTREME cramping kicks in. And finally bleeding non stop for 5 days. I am talking about pouring out. Then BAM it just stops. All done. Each month is getting worse. This month I also cried non stop. 3 out of 4 months I am basically incapacitated by my period.
My OBGYN suggests a partial hysterectomy. I am really not ready for that.
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I understand becouse I had a chiropractor like this and it took me a while to realize somethign the chiropractor is YOUR employee she does not have to like any of your other medical choices her job is to pop your back and crack your neck
Who's "we"? The still married guy you just started seeing recently? Is your divorce finalized?
**** you move fast.
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Well, I am not getting any younger... yes my divorce is finalized, and his will be very soon.
I get insomnia and then bad menstrual migraines that can last a week (thank god it's usually every third month or so). I truly hope menopause helps this!!!!
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Ablation?? I googled and only found Novasure? Is it like Mirena?
I called our insurance to see what is and isn't covered.
I suspect peri- menopause also. I kind of feel to young for that :-(
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Novasure is the brand name I know of. Uterine ablation is the generic name. Basically manual or chemical cauterization of the lining of your uterus so no more periods and sterility results.
My mom had it done oh 6-7 years ago and her periods immediately stopped with no further problems (she was like you). I will very likely be doing this myself soon.
Wow! You have been through it! :grouphug4: I am SO glad you are able to go into all this knowing you've explored all your options. I hope you find something that works out for you. Hopefully some here will have some answers. Seems like there's always someone who's been there in this group.
If you want something that is non-permanent ask your doctor for a D&C, this is where they dialate your cervix and remove uterine lining buildup. Done correctly this does not affect fertility. This is basically the same process as an abortion, just done for medical reasons with no pregnancy. Before the rise of prescription methods of dealing with this stuff this was the standard method of (temporarily) alleviating heavy periods.
Does not stop your period, just removes built up tissue that could be causing problems.
On my personal mental severity "tree" it goes D&C , ablation , then talk of hysterectomy or partial H.
Does not stop your period, just removes built up tissue that could be causing problems.
On my personal mental severity "tree" it goes D&C , ablation , then talk of hysterectomy or partial H.
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I have had 4 DC's. 4 miscarriages. The 5th I had to do "naturally". Less than a year later I was pregnant with my 1st son.
I am leaning towards Mirena or Lybera. I guess I will have to talk to my Doctor and see what he thinks.
I have not had any problems with IUD, but it has not had any effect on my periods.
I used the Depo and was diagnoist with osto at the age of 30. It decreased my bone mass on my hips. I ended up having to go on old lady meds to regrow my bones. I have regained almost all of my bone loss after 3 years of meds. I have a iud and don't get my friend each month. its been almost 3 years.
