Well it depends on a lot of factors, for example it may not benefit in the short term, but in the long term it could majorly positively affect someone, or vice versa. Recent example would be my two best friends falling out; really bad change that I hate, used to go out with them all the time, cinema, shopping, etc and now I only spend time with one or the other, which is a change i hate.you decide on the changes on which ones you feel and good, and which ones are bad and let us know your thoughts