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alright my ex i wish he would fall of the edge of the earth......he is such a jerk he dumped me for my best friend and told me I was a psycho obsessed **** that needs to grow up.......we were engaded to be married and he did this i sooo wish i could just drop him of the edge of a cliff or something plus my best friend and another one back stabbed me over all this.....
 
Ok, we're going to try a meditation exercise here..

Close your eyes..imagine that you are in a meadow..surrounded by a serene forest...
It's sunset, the sun has just passed behind a low cloud line..leaving yellows and oranges streaming across the sky
The birds are singing, and some deer are playing a few hundred yards behind you..
Before you is a stream running over the rocks, causing you to almost fall asleep from the sound it makes while it pours over the rocks.
Your hands are cold from the water...but you can just make out the face of your ex-boyfriend as your hold him under...
 
My friend went through the same thing as you, except he was married. His wife cheated on him with his friend and he was really broken up for months afterwards. But he is so much better than before. He has learned from this, and he is finally able to trust again. He is in a much better relationship now than with his wife. She was an anal ****, in my opinion and he is better off without him, just like you are better off without either one of them. Just remember that not all people are like that, and it is okay to trust again.
 
i have this ex that belongs in prison, and is currently destroying the lives of my friends that havn't gotten away from my home town. remember that high school jerks hardly ever change like they say they do and college is a fun way to get away from them (or maybe when all ur friends go to college). until then, just remember, if they are more than 5 years older than u and are trying to get u to date them, maybe there's a reason ppl their age don't want anything to do with them.
 
Saka said:
alright my ex i wish he would fall of the edge of the earth......he is such a jerk he dumped me for my best friend and told me I was a psycho obsessed **** that needs to grow up.......we were engaded to be married and he did this i sooo wish i could just drop him of the edge of a cliff or something plus my best friend and another one back stabbed me over all this.....
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Sorry to hear this. What I can not understand, for the life of me, is how the hell can your ex go with this guy after seeing what he did to you? Why is it the cheaters always think they will never be cheated ON?

Things suck now, but time heals all wounds.
 
Once a runner always a runner! If they cheated on their ex they will cheat on you eventually. OK this I believe to a degree. However, it is not always the case. Look at Ronald and Nancy Regan. She was married and divorced her husband for the "Gipper" she preferred "Bedtime with Bonzo". This marriage lasted forever. So there are exceptions to the rule.
 
GoingNova said:
Things suck now, but time heals all wounds.
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You'd think so, wouldn't you?
I say that time deals all wounds, but that's just because I'm not a trusting person.
That was really ****ty for your friend to do that. You should get even in a way that neither of them would suspect...
OK, maybe that sounds a little too bitter.
 
Pretty much the same thing happened to me, Saka in my first marriage - best friend, rotten husband, horror stories, LIVING NIGHTMARE. It does get better but you have to LET it get better. Don't hang on to the rage - the best revenge I've found is to live a happy life because THEY never do. We should form a planet called Loser and ship them all off....
 
I'd say time doesn't heal wounds...

But then again what do I know...
 
The Scum of the Earth

Now i don't know about you guys but I'm 16 years old and I had the same thing happen to me that happened to Saka and Coconut.
 
Every relationship has it's good points and it's bad. I hope it gets better for those who are on the receiving end of a bad situation.
 
You know - Faithwulf is SO right - we're all alive and well and able to tell the tale. Thanks, Faith!:eusa_ange
 
Being alive in itself doesn’t make anything better. You know, love is truly a rose with thorns. It’s a wonderful sensation though you’ll get deep puncture wounds as well. It’s sad that we can’t drop these cheaters off the face of the Earth, but of course that would be a violation of their rights as human beings (Though we can have a hard time calling them that). I’ve been cheated on numerous times before; it’s truly a shattering experience. Though, it ultimately proves that we’re better off without such people and gives us the opportunity to meet those just as loyal, trustworthy and are even up and beyond our expectations.
 
i dont know! i still stick with Smile..

i walked in on my gf being pounded by my best friend... ive also been cheated on by 3 other girls, ive lost my best friends to motorbike accidents and now i dont ride anymore, my passion for bikes has died cos of it.. but i still smile..

the importance of a smile.. is so complex.. if you smile.. even if your not feeling it... you seem to feel happier? like if im down, and i smirk to myself.. it automatically makes me think of the funny side of w/e is going on... perhaps thats how i deal with life's crap? who knows... i stick by ~smile :)

EDIT: insane, i find the things you say truly magical, you have a tremendous way with words my friend, i added you to msn :) hope you dont mind
 
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