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Do you expect to get married? What is your expectation of marriage? Or if you don't plan on getting married why not?
 
At this point of life, no I don't want to be married and really hope I don't. I don't think lovers need such a thing for themselves.
 
I don't want to be married yet, I am engaged but not married. You have to take time with these things to really judge if it's the right woman for you.
 
Right now I don't see it happening. Would I like to? Well, being the romantic I am, yes and no. I'd love someone like that in my life, but at the same time I like being by myself too.

I always joke and say I'll likely be the crazy ferret lady. XD
 
David said:
I don't want to be married yet, I am engaged but not married. You have to take time with these things to really judge if it's the right woman for you.
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hmm... you're engaged but you don't know if she's the right woman? Isn't this something one should decide BEFORE they ask someone to marry them?

I myself am married. Marriage is NOT for everyone and it isn't something that should be taken lightly. When I got married to my husband I didn't realize that I could get ANY closer to him but I did. Marriage is a whole another level of commitment that one does not truly realize until it's done. It's not just about the paper. If you're the type of person whose words are worth a lot, when you get married you declare to the world that you are going to go the rest of your life with this one person until you die. It's a beautiful thing if you are with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
 
I don't really expect to be married. The whole idea of firstly planning a marriage, and then finding the right person, doesn't quite stick with me. If I ever find someone who are close to perfect to me, and I'm in a good place in my life, then I could consider it.
 
Vehemence said:
It's important to get married, it's a part of life.
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Depends on your view of reality. Some people, and actually most people in previous generations, use the establishment of family as their way to self-realization. Others use art, their careers and love in other forms than marriage for this purpose. The idea of marriage being necessary in life is a traditional one.
 
I do want to get married someday. Right now I don't really have the commitment, though. I'm lazy and don't want to put in the work, so I'm not even trying ATM. At some point, I may go back in the game and seriously start looking, but for now I'll stick with Bud Light and football.
 
I do think of marriage in the future, but I don't really think of it as a necessity for myself either. If it comes, it comes- I do tend to imagine it a lot, but when I imagine it, I get frantic mentally and realize I'm rushing myself, since it's usually my attempt at imagining my future with my current partner. Sometimes I think about marriage, sometimes I don't- either way, if it does happen, I plan to wait a looong time- if it's a sudden and fast proposal, I plan to refuse, and if I do agree to one, I won't be accepting a short engagement time. Because of my parents, I don't trust short and sudden attempts on these very deep, complex things.
 
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