What is your future, guys?

[Tommy]

Obviously no one knows what's going to be going on in the future or if your plans are even close to what will happen, but, does anyone have a basic plan of their future or any thoughts about it?

I have a few:

a) My boyfriend moves in with my parents for a little while, we get used to living together and he gets a job in the London area. Then we rent our own flat closer to Central London and live like that for a year or so, saving up for our own house (or some of it, just so we can get a mortgage) and then we buy a house outside of London and can start a family etc.

b) My boyfriend moves in with my parents till I finish my apprenticeship then we get a transfer closer to his area and we start renting a flat there (I can't move in with his parents) and we do the ending of the above.

And after that I'll have a nice 3-bedroom house waiting for children and possibly will let my grandparents move in when they retire and if I want to adopt another child I can build an extension.

You can't predict the future, though. Anyone have any thoughts on theirs?

 

[Han]

I honestly haven't got a clue. Right now I just think 'whatever happens, happens'.
I wasn't happy when my first plan didn't work out as I wanted, and because I didn't get perfect grades I threw that away and got knocked back a lot.
I guess I'd rather just focus on the here and now and not plan for the future as nothing is ever going to work out as it's planned.

I am the only one who seems to effect myself with that huge an impact when it comes to things not working out as planned regarding my life - so I don't give myself the chance.