I think in too many cases people were sweet talked by bankers into thinking they could afford more house than they really could. Many had dreams of flipping these houses in a short period and making a small fortune. Then everything went to crap.
This is so true...when DH and I were looking for our "starter home", they were telling us what we could afford on two salaries. I knew I did not want to work when I had kids...thank goodness we did not go with what the bank said we could afford....and that was just for the house...no property tax, no utilities, no insurance, just house. For some strange reason we knew better (and we were young). We were being told that we could afford a $200,000 house. We settled for a $96,000 dump.............and we are still in our starter house 23 years later.
I am still trying to "love" this house but the one neighbor is driving me crazy...our goal now is to buy a driveable camper and not be home as much as possible so we don't have to deal with the nutty neighbors.