Real estate and stocks have this in common....most of the time you are talking about an unrealized loss. You've only "lost" money in the stock market when your shares are worth less than you paid for them AND you sell them. If you paid $3,000 for shares and once upon a time they were worth $10,000 and now they are worth $4,000 that is not a "loss". If you paid $3,000 and got out because the value dropped to $2,000 THAT is a loss.
The same is true for the "value" of your house. What it currently appraises at really only matters if you sell it right now. If you have been paying $1,000 a month on your $200,000 mortgage and your house was REALLY worth $200K in a realistic market you have only "lost" money on your house if you sell it. If you love your house, can still pay your $1,000 mortgage then life is still good. Stop worrying about its "worth" until you need to. If you were planning to keep it another 10, 15 or 20 years it really doesn't matter what it's "worth" right now.
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The same is true for the "value" of your house. What it currently appraises at really only matters if you sell it right now. If you have been paying $1,000 a month on your $200,000 mortgage and your house was REALLY worth $200K in a realistic market you have only "lost" money on your house if you sell it. If you love your house, can still pay your $1,000 mortgage then life is still good. Stop worrying about its "worth" until you need to. If you were planning to keep it another 10, 15 or 20 years it really doesn't matter what it's "worth" right now.
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