When I was working at Aldi one of my old guy cust gave me a valentines card with 50 $2 dollar bills in it it said Roses are Red Violets are blue I want to FU!!! I had to return it and said I could get fired for taking gifts from custs. Like that was the only reason!!!!! He was crushed told me to come down to his restaurant with the hubby for drinks and dinner instead. And when I was in HS a guy gave me a black hills gold and diamond ring I could not accept it because I had no interest in him.
As for family giving us money don't really care for it. But stopping someone from GIVING is hard to do EXCEPT when you know they are doing it because they feel they should like for birthdays and holidays when I KNOW they can not afford it. Then I just don't cash the check or find a way to give it back to them.
And I am one of those people who DO NOT like to keep tabs on favors if I can help I do and do not expect a return favor. I hate it when someone says I owe ya one...
As for family giving us money don't really care for it. But stopping someone from GIVING is hard to do EXCEPT when you know they are doing it because they feel they should like for birthdays and holidays when I KNOW they can not afford it. Then I just don't cash the check or find a way to give it back to them.
And I am one of those people who DO NOT like to keep tabs on favors if I can help I do and do not expect a return favor. I hate it when someone says I owe ya one...