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I think I made some progress with a girl I've been crushing on for a few weeks, basically I arranged a night out with a friend, the "crush" is a friend of hers, then the girl that asked us to go ditched us, so we just walked around and talked in the park for a good 3 hours, we've talked before but never that much, so yeah, thought I'd share.
 
Things seem to be heading in the right direction! :3 New romance is one of life's free pleasures! :)
 
Trying to find time to ask her out somewhere, it feels like I'm always busy.
 
So we went out with some other people to a festival, but I feel that when there are more people around she's a bit distant, but so am I, so yeah.

We still talked and stuff, she also forced me to have a beer(I've never had one).

On the way back we were in a van, and the back seat was broken so we were pretty much lying down, she then got really close to me and put her head on my shoulder, I didn't really know what to do so I didn't do anything.

After like 3 minutes she moved.

What was I supposed to do? :3
 
Potato said:
What was I supposed to do? :3
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She probably hoped that you'd put your arm around her. Just try doing it next time. :)


I wrote a thread on another forum about a guy I was crushing on. It gave me great satisfaction to be able to post on the same thread months later with, 'we're a couple now :3' along with a photo of us! :=3:
I very much hope to see you do the same! :)
 
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Like Hannah said, she was probably inviting you to put your arm around her. Women are strange creatures, and little things like that can make them think that you're not interested. Be careful and watch more closely for these kind of signs!
 
****, my initial instinct was to put my arm around her and rest my head on hers, but I didn't know if she'd be comfortable with me doing that, so I kinda froze.

And I remember the thread in the other forum :)
 
[MENTION=1016]Potato[/MENTION] If she's comfortable enough to rest her head on your shoulder, she's comfortable enough to have your arm around her! I know I'd never rest my head on a guy's shoulder, unless I was comfortable with him. Always go with your natural instinct, it's usually right! She won't bite your head off if you did it and she didn't like it (unless she's a bit mental), the most she'd do is shrug you off.

Oh you do? :o Didn't know you were on that one!
 
Apparently she made up with her ex, they're not dating but they're friends again, she told me when they broke up, I don't know what to think and do.
 
Don't worry about her ex. Just continue as you are.
 
A friend and his girlfriend asked me if I wanted to go the movies and bring someone, might ask her, worst case scenario I'll go with my friend's gf's cousin.
 
GO, GO, GO, GO.... ask her out like ASAP.

exes are a **** , specially because they can make us THINK we still have feeling for them which we DON'T and everything ends up being a WASTE OF TIME.

So, go ahead and try your best. Don't be someone else though, just be yourself

And it's pretty easy with the girls. Girls like games and they play games all the time so watch out because pretty much everything she does will be a sign of something.
 
I hate games, well, I think I hate games, I've never played them...

Apparently they break up and get back together a lot.
 
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well, girls do play phychological games a lot so.......... either you pick some up or you'll end up alone.

well, her relationship isnt healthier then. Make her see that and try your best to make her see what's she's losing :D
 
Potato said:
So we went out with some other people to a festival, but I feel that when there are more people around she's a bit distant, but so am I, so yeah.

We still talked and stuff, she also forced me to have a beer(I've never had one).

On the way back we were in a van, and the back seat was broken so we were pretty much lying down, she then got really close to me and put her head on my shoulder, I didn't really know what to do so I didn't do anything.

After like 3 minutes she moved.

What was I supposed to do? :3
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Shoulda gone for the old yawn move bro ;)

Also disregard her ex and invite her to the movies.
 
I did, currently waiting for a reply.

And realistically she isn't losing much.
 
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