Did I leave? LOL
You were kinda MIA for awhile there!
red take your families help. You need that early bonding time with baby. :bliss: Oh and have your DD's party at your Mom's for God's sake! :lol:
ETA: Swale great minds think alike! :lol:
Holy crap, you are so right...I swear to this day...I don't have the relationship that I though I would have with my daugher because of how things when down....and it lingers still. That bonding time is soooooooooooo important.
Well it's decided...party at moms house!
That is such a smart thing to do....I was such a dumb ****...then...no, no..I'm okay. I can do it all.
Today...if I could do it over......uhm.......could I get some motherfucking help here....because I'm loosing it....LOL
My kids were 18 months a part and DS did not like the new baby at all. Now that I think about it, what really put me over the edge was when DD was crying and she was changed, fed...and all that...so I let her cry. She was my cryer...cried all the time...just fussy...unbenounced to me...DS climbed in her bassenet and was laying on her...crushing her...that is why she was crying...she was only 7 days old. If I did not come to her because I felt guilty for her crying...he probably would have suffocated her....good times....good times.
Yep, take all the help you can get...happy mom...happy everybody.
acupressure, nipple stimulation and masturbation have some proven effectiveness. Well alrighty then!
I go through the withdrawl thing with my ADHD DS10. He's great on his meds, but doesn't eat. So on the weekends I wouldn't give him the meds. He eats, but is a monster..............totally angry, emotional, just can't handle anything and hates life in general. So now we give him half a dose on the weekends. It's still not perfect, but the best we have right now. :surrender:
Well that went exactly as I expected.
Doc: How is it (meds) working for you?
Me: Fine.
Doc: Any episodes of depression?
Me: Nope.
Doc. Sleeping ok?
Me: Just fine.
Doc: Ok let's fill that script. Have a great weekend.
(out the door he goes)
I've had this doc for almost 14 years and man he looks like **** the last few years. He's maybe in his 50's and looks and sounds like and old man. If I closed my eyes I would think I was talking to a man in his 80's and he moves like a zombie with zero expression. Me thinks he's burned out.
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I go through the withdrawl thing with my ADHD DS10. He's great on his meds, but doesn't eat. So on the weekends I wouldn't give him the meds. He eats, but is a monster..............totally angry, emotional, just can't handle anything and hates life in general. So now we give him half a dose on the weekends. It's still not perfect, but the best we have right now. :surrender:
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Oh boy I might have to avoid this thread for the next few weeks if it gets any deeper.
Since I've been so emotional during this pregnancy, DH once mentioned he was worried that I might get postpartum depression and basically just let me know he was looking out for me. That thought had never occurred to me before then.
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