My daughter is AMAZING. She handled today much better than I ever could have at her age. She has made her peace with the situation, she said that having the last few weeks has given her time and she feels for women who find out there is a problem and then have to have a D & C right away. They were so sweet to her, the hospital gave her a folder with all kinds of resources, a really sweet letter expressing their sympathy for her loss, and a beautiful poem.
They will do testing to see if they can find a cause or if it was just "one of those things". The remains will then be buried at St. Michael The Archangel, which just happens to be across from Harper, so I think it is a comfort that she'll be close when she starts her classes.
Physically she is doing well. I thought she'd be totally out of it and sleep all afternoon (general anesthetic) but nope...we came home and piled up but it was me who slept for an hour while she was on the internet. :giggles:
She insisted on going to Jewel with me to pick out the bird, which turned out to include a stop at Dollar Tree and Target. I think tomorrow she'll probably sleep all day though.
Thank you all for your support and prayers, it means the world to me. :hug: