I would try a different med then.
Probably have to wait until he gets a new job with benefit, he hasn't gone back to see the doctor since he lost his job, he is more than happy since he doesn't thinks he is ADHD.
I would try a different med then.
So, we have an appointment with a doctor this evening. This doctor was Oh, and my ds8 has an addictive, repetitive type personality. He gets horribly addicted to video games so that it is all he thinks about. I go round with dh about this because he used to use the DS system to babysit ds when I was out taking the other kids to activities. A few weeks ago he offered ds time to play MineCraft if he finished his school work. All that causes is for ds to only thing about MineCraft. He has notebooks (multiple) where he writes stories and makes lists about MineCraft. He is constantly looking it up on the computer/youtube. I can't take my eyes off him/leave the room without him doing it.
Or a different husband. They are somewhat replaceable until you find one that sticks.
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We took ds8's ds away for a good 6, maybe 9 or more months. We told him we sold it. I would find him up in the middle of the night playing it. I am not up for a total ban for the household on video games. My other kids like them, but are not "addicted." They, in varying degrees (some need more prodding and monitoring than others), know how to put them away and move on. I hate to punish the others because of ds8 with a total ban. I do feel, right now, that a total ban for ds8 is in order. I would like to think that it won't have to be total forever as he does need to learn self control. With the techno world we live in he will have to learn it or he won't be able to function as an adult. Perhaps, though, we will find that just as an alcoholic cannot handle even one drink, kids/people who have that bend towards video game addiction have to stay away from it completely. I'm not sure.DS5 can be like this with his DS too. Lately it's been Lego StarWars all the time. Doesn't help that he has Star Wars actual Legos too. I've been thinking about taking the DS away for a bit just to see if he'd stop drawing Clone Troopers all the time. We finally banned all game talk at dinner.
I can't get dh to do any home improvement type stuff. He said he was going to paint the interior of the house several years ago. Humph! I'm still silently seething that he told another guy at church that he was remodeling the kitchen. Yeah, right. He went to look at some cabinets some guy was giving away to fill in an empty space (that has been there for 20+ years) . He didn't take them because the whole place was nasty and he was afraid he'd be bringing home some critters. We bought a door two years ago to replace our back screen door that I'm still waiting for him to replace. I told him I want a compost to make use of the stuff left from juicing. He stuck it in bags in the back fridge - ya know, til he does whatever with it. Uuuuhm, no, it is not sitting in the back fridge stinking til we finally realize he is never doing anything with it. Uuugh! But hey, other than those things he's nearly perfect.You should buy some lingerie & a whip. Surely one of the two, or a combination of the two, will spark some sort of motivation.
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You should buy some lingerie & a whip. Surely one of the two, or a combination of the two, will spark some sort of motivation.
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Or a different husband. They are somewhat replaceable until you find one that sticks.
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CANNOT believe that my DD's grandfather DID NOT even give her a card for her bday today! WTF? My DH"s dsyfunctional family never fails to amaze me. SMH. FWIW, they were even at his house and he didn't even give her a card or anything! He just said Happy Birthday! ****!
CANNOT believe that my DD's grandfather DID NOT even give her a card for her bday today! WTF? My DH"s dsyfunctional family never fails to amaze me. SMH. FWIW, they were even at his house and he didn't even give her a card or anything! He just said Happy Birthday! ****!
I would be shocked for a grandfather to come up with a gift or card without a reminder or "helper" ie grandma/etc to get something.....
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