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I am used to referring to people as he or she so sometimes I make that error.
RQN1234 said:Here is my take:
At least the guy was up front with you about his intentions. He didn't try to slip her his number and meet up with your friend behind your back. He didn't get caught sneaking around with someone else. He told you flat out what he intended to do, though he may not have employed much tact in how he did it. To this end he acted much more honorably than your average dog. But at the end of the day he is still a dog.
I wouldn't be too hard on the guy. Tell him that you appreciate his honesty in telling you about his intentions with the other woman, but that being the case you no longer wish to pursue a relationship with him in a sexual manner. Considering that he was upfront with you I am sure he will appreciate you being upfront with him in similar fashion.
I mean lets be honest here, he didn't betray you or stab you in the back, he told you straight out how it was going to be. Time for a friendly parting of the ways.
Slack with Me said:You are all totally off the mark on this one.
This is enitrely HER fault. She agreed to the terms of the relationship then gets angry when the terms are enforced. They started as F-buddies and he has every right in the world to want to hang otu with other girls.
He didn't ask her permission to bang her roomate... he asked for her to leave so they could hang out and possible start an ACTUAL relationship rather then an f-buddy stance.
Perhaps you should rethink the consequences of having a "F-Buddy", and whether or not such a thing is really such a good idea in the first place. Do you think that little of yourself that you would just have sex with someone for "fun"?aliciamarie02 said:Yes we started off as f-buddies
aliciamarie02 said:He would call every weekend after that(he works long hours during the week) Than we started "hooking" up but decided that we were not a couple(thats why I always said I was single) Well two weeks ago we talked about a relationship and were we would like to go, so I was actually excited.
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