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As it is none but her knows the details of how '24/7' she was.
As it is none but her knows the details of how '24/7' she was.
ANGLOIRISH said:I don't know ladies. Is it that difficult to keep your legs closed?
ANGLOIRISH said:If the shoe fits.
Again Spunkey. It is MY OPINION. If you feel the need to read into it that I am calling women who have premarital sex, ****s, that is your problem. I didn't say that did I. I asked a question. Furthermore it was a straight forward question with no judgment or accusations.
Your over-reaction makes me think you are harboring a guilty conscience. After all you are the one who mentioned ****s, no?
ANGLOIRISH said:What exactly do you expect from someone who is just there to "f" you? A ring? A promise of fidelity? If you are not respecting yourself then why would you think he is going to show you any respect?
I mean no disrespect; however, I don't see that his behavior is out of the ordinary. He couldn't have used you unless you allowed him. Obviously whether consciously or subconsciously, your message was loud and clear to the cad.
Not fault,aliciamarie02, responsibility.
You deserve the best, everyone does. In my opinion, allowing some cad to get his jollies using your body is not "the best". Time to raise the bar and regain your self respect.
When you feel good about yourself then no one can take advantage of you.
See this is why women continue to be emotionally abused.
Seven pages of advise, mostly from men who know what is going on in a man's mind during a "f buddy" relationship; men who took the time to explain that becoming involved in such a relationship cheapens the woman; men who suggested that the woman not allow herself to be used by "stray dogs" and the only statement the woman involved in the relationship can be thankful for is:
Originally Posted by Nightwolf04
I've gotten attached alicia there's nothing to be sorry for. Nothing to stand up for either
Obviously all the sound advice in the world from those who know the score has fallen on deaf ears. This was definitely an exercise in futility.
aliciamarie02Alright. Its my fault for getting attached. I made a mistake and I am standing up for it and taking the fault.
No one is blaming you. All the posters are doing are giving you the heads up on what part you are playing in this twisted scenario. But I guess that is not what you want to hear.
Better that we all say that you were the victim and he was the "bad guy"? No, that would not be the truth.
The truth is if you had set higher standards for yourself all of this would not be happening. Some men are dogs let's face it. You found yourself a cur. Rise above it and the next time think twice before you lie down with a stray.
Spunkey replies:
well now that was a bit harsh
Then **** it. Don't ask for advice if you are not able to face the truth! Women!!
From a male point of view, believe it or not, more respect for a woman is gained by not hopping into the sack then being a 24/7 ride. Think about it. If you are that easy for one what makes the guy not think you are easy for anyone? Not too many guys marry the one nighters.
don't know ladies. Is it that difficult to keep your legs closed?
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Originally Posted by ANGLOIRISH
I don't know ladies. Is it that difficult to keep your legs closed?
Spunkey responds:
well that was a pretty rude comment just because someone has sex before they are married you dont need to make them sound like a ****
NOTE THE WORD “WHORE†SUDDENLY APPEARS IN HER POST
If the shoe fits.
Again Spunkey. It is MY OPINION. If you feel the need to read into it that I am calling women who have premarital sex, ****s, that is your problem. I didn't say that did I. I asked a question. Furthermore it was a straight forward question with no judgment or accusations.
Your over-reaction makes me think you are harboring a guilty conscience. After all you are the one who mentioned ****s, no?
Night:
you saw her post that she didn't even after months irish yet you still put that she seemed like a ****…Over-reaction, you call someone a **** what do you expect...for them to just say 'oh yes well of course I am'
Spunkey: oh your opinion???? hmmm that makes me think that you judged her although in one of my posts on another thread you wrote something on the order of "no one has judged alicia marie"
OK read those prior posts that I made and point to the word "****". Please make my day. Spunkey has removed herself from the equation and claims I am the one making references to alicia being a ****. Show me please where I said that she is a ****.
My posts are directed to any female who thinks it is OK to allow herself to be used. How can you demand respect from anyone if you have none for yourself.
As for men, I do not approve of any man using a woman. What ever happened to respect for one another? I have never just taken a woman home to screw her and turn her out in the morning. I have too much respect for myself as well as for the person I am dating.
So please NEVER, EVER ACCUSE ME OF CALLING ANYONE A ****!! If you think that telling someone to respect her body is the same as calling her a **** then it is YOU who has a serious problem with your sexuality, not me.
Believe me if I thought that she was a **** I wouldn't have bothered answering anything in this thread. And like Spunkey has pointed out from one of my responses in another thread I am not judging her. My question "Is it that difficult to keep your legs closed"? has obvious struck a nerve for certain female bashers.
"...Over-reaction, you call someone a **** what do you expect...for them to just say 'oh yes well of course I am'?
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