This may be long....she was the one that kept OT going. Posted lots of details of her life...was a staple of OT on all day and night.
She told us her dh and her were having problems. Few weeks/months later ...divorce. She met a new guy and he was the love of her life!!! For a while @@....then she had cancer and was nearly going to die. She said he left her and she was all alone. THEN she met another guy....I posted several times that maybe she needed "me" time rather than a third marriage in like 3 years.
This really is a synopsis....you had to BE there to understand...the details were intricate. She announced their marriage....posted about dresses...her kids reaction. She was getting married on Valentines Day!! There were posts congratulating her...people were like here and at most forums (they were THERE for her and happy for her etc...)
She IMed me....and told me about how her second husband RAPED her when she was suffering from chemo. How he abused her already frail and failing body. Told me that this man was all she could have prayed for....he holds her hair while she vomits from chemo. HE is the prince of all men.
Anyway....months later....single again. A member of the board and she were flirting back and forth. What most didn't know was that they were serious and had agreed to go on vacation together. He made all the financial arrangements and took time off and made arrangements for his children to go on this vacation. She cancelled like the day before. WELLLL...he was ON vacation anyway....so, he went to surprise her in her hometown. (he was also suspicious at that point....but hoped for a happy surprise).
He arrives in town (small town/south) and finds out that she is married to the original DH 1. There WAS no DH 2 OR 3. No marriage, no honeymoon (she was away from the board 2 weeks on some LAVISH honeymoon with DH2)...EVERYTHING she posted was a lie.
She was about to be outted and drug through the forum and she came on and posted this REALLY LONG post about how she hadn't lied.....that her username on the board was an "internet persona" that entertained herself as well as the rest of us.
No harm, no foul, right?
She had 2 suicide watches, cancer, marriages, deaths, posted pics of lavish cars and pianos and other gifts she had received. People on the board cheered for her, cried for her, and were happy for her....
and it was all a lie.
She came back like 2-3 years later....greeted warmly by all but me. The IM where she played with my emotions and feelins relaying her rape and details of her imaginary illness were beyond forgiveness, IMO.