I went back and read the post(s) Barb made in this thread about this. I didn't quote her post of her name is Barb and she is born in September as, well that one IMO did not seem to have any innuendo in it at all, it was cut and dry. I did quote her post of the anonymous because if you read further into the thread, I believe the person she is talking about is Tracey, the other forum leader. I do not know this to be fact as I haven't asked, just going by what is there. I do not know of any issues you two had, as it as far as I know, wasn't posted for all the read and make mention on. I'm thinking you might have taken this post a bit too personally. Her post seemed to be of a joking nature and more of a "cliffhanger/mystery" type post. Again, this is just my opinion. I still think you do not have to leave the board and I am sorry if you felt outed.