OH, and I was respectful in my responses to you here. There was a lot NOT said out of respect for you and your feelings and wanting you comfortable in CW.
Plus...it was none of my business. IF you wished to share...and this is a great place to vent when things are going badly (been there...donethat...I understand it)....if I diagreed it wasn't my business to do so. You deserved the right to have a place as much as I or anyone else does without challenging you on it. So, for the most part....I actually minded my own business.
Peace and a happy future to us both.
I know you were being respectful. I can imagine how you feel about me, my husband, and my situation. You are not the only one. I have lost friends, Pat has lost family members, and I have grown a very thick skin because of it. I don't expect anyone to agree with me. I have stopped arguing with people to try to get them to change their mind...it was chipping away at my sanity at a pace that was frighteningly fast. I happen to like what little bit of my sanity I have left.
I totally respect you, Barb. Really. I know we don't see eye to eye but I want you to know that.