Thinking I'm about to crash! Mom is in hospital now, took her in Sunday did a direct admit for phenonia, been there everyday with her. FIL took a turn for the worse again last week. His feeding tube is shut off completely now, anything he eats or drinks goes right thru him! He gets soft foods if he asks for anything, kidneys are shutting down, he's getting more confused and a little agitated. Hospice says it won't be long for him maybe 1-2 weeks, I know he's dying, but really hate to see him go so slowly. I keep praying mom gets better and the good Lord takes FIL soon without much more suffering, he's not in much pain, but completely miserable! Its too scary to have mom so sick, I'm not ready to loose her, we've know FIL has been dying for a long time now. I'm just about at my wits end. Logging on here and reading some of your guys humor and of course the great deals, which I can't get now, but will again soon, gives me a great disraction from reality, so glad I found you all!