You STILL haven't closed on your house? :hb: Do I need to go threaten these people? A baby is a life changer for sure, but you will still be able to do fun things. This weekend we went apple picking with DS and made a pie. It is a yearly tradition. Also, vacations will be fine. Just do some of the things that you want mixed in with a few kid things. I remember going to countless national parks as a kid (what mom wanted to do) and we still had a blast.