Parenting is hard enough, and when the spouses don't agree on things... oh man it gets a lot harder. :huggy:
We agree for the most part...but he feels sometimes that I am trying to control every situation, and I am truly not TRYING to do that.
I'm irritated right now and considering getting an OP against my FIL. He has a history of mental illness, and he's always on again/off again his meds, and always drinking which doesn't help anything. In DH's words, he's also a "woman hater".
A VERY long story short - he made a "business proposition" to my DH, which was respectfully declined. He took offense and started a huge fight over the phone, so DH hung up. He came over unannounced and started the fight again here until the cops mysteriously showed up and asked him to leave. Now he's leaving threatening and degrading voicemails to DH about me, b/c he just KNOWS this is all my doing. And I'm a "manipulative ****ing ****". Cool. @@
I never liked that guy, and I always shudder when he's around. Now it's worse. I slept like **** last night b/c I had one eye open the whole time.
red you don't need to deal with that kind of drama and stress in your condition..............SHAME on your FIL. What does your MIL say about it all?
I'm irritated right now and considering getting an OP against my FIL. He has a history of mental illness, and he's always on again/off again his meds, and always drinking which doesn't help anything. In DH's words, he's also a "woman hater".
A VERY long story short - he made a "business proposition" to my DH, which was respectfully declined. He took offense and started a huge fight over the phone, so DH hung up. He came over unannounced and started the fight again here until the cops mysteriously showed up and asked him to leave. Now he's leaving threatening and degrading voicemails to DH about me, b/c he just KNOWS this is all my doing. And I'm a "manipulative ****ing ****". Cool. @@
I never liked that guy, and I always shudder when he's around. Now it's worse. I slept like **** last night b/c I had one eye open the whole time.
Oh boy, my MIL. Not sure which one is worse! They are divorced and HATE each other. I mean volatile. And she doesn't care much for me either :lol: but that's okay b/c I don't care for her. Last time we were there she was calling my SIL a "****ing C***" in front of my kids and they started throwing forks at each other.... That's how his family is. Somewhere on here recently (I think in the Tazz's crush thread) I posted how his family is so whack and how DH turned out normal is beyond me.
Oh boy, my MIL. Not sure which one is worse! They are divorced and HATE each other. I mean volatile. And she doesn't care much for me either :lol: but that's okay b/c I don't care for her. Last time we were there she was calling my SIL a "****ing C***" in front of my kids and they started throwing forks at each other.... That's how his family is. Somewhere on here recently (I think in the Tazz's crush thread) I posted how his family is so whack and how DH turned out normal is beyond me.
I used to enjoy coming to read things in OT, not so much lately. What's going on around here???
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And for cheese in your mailbox.
Would it be wierd to ask people on this site for their soda cans, water/juice/soda bottles for school's recycling contest?
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